Relationship practice

Make One Real Connection

A small application of the Community Audit: give one relationship your undivided, unhurried attention.

Chapter 3 · Protocol 2: The Community Audit · pp. 86–90


Try it this week

The book distinguishes real reciprocity from passive consumption. This practice makes room for one conversation, walk, or meal with someone who matters to you.

  1. Choose one person you would genuinely like to be more present with.
  2. Call, walk with, or share a meal with them—without making it a performance.
  3. Keep the phone out of the conversation when you reasonably can.